One for laughter, two for joy.

A robin feathering his nest

Has very little time to rest

While he is gathering

Bits of twig and twine

While most of us visualize a perfect Mary Poppins scene when we hear these lines, I have had a perfect opportunity to experience it first hand. Being an ardent lover of bright sunny days, it has always been my habit to open all the windows and draw the curtains immediately after waking up. So, just a few days back as I woke up and rolled up the net off my hostel window I was disgusted to see my window sill littered with white feathery things. A closer look revealed that there were a sort of feathery flowers, something like what we call "kash phool" in Bengali. Almost immediately, almost to answer my questions, two tiny birds came and sat on the grill each holding a dried piece of grass with its beak. 

I have never been very fond of small delicate soft animals. They sort of give me the creeps down my spine. So as you would guess, the idea of tiny baby birds on my window sill was not a very welcome idea. Irritated with all the mess, I got all the feather and twigs removed and my window cleaned by the maid who was kind enough to do it for me even though she grumbled and cursed the birds all along. But alas, the next morning I woke up again to the exact same sight, When I told my mother about it, it was she who told me that birds only build nests in places they find safe and that I should not disturb them and let them be, By this time I had gotten used to the chirps of the two tiny birds on my window and started enjoying their company. So i decided to let them be and click photos of them instead. 

After a few days, they had collected so much that we thought they were trying to make a multi-storied nest for themselves. Half of the window was curtained with grass hanging from the grills. After a point of time we started criticizing the architectural skills of they birds because they were taking too much time and making no progress. They used to assemble the grass everyday and everyday it would come loose and get deposited at the bottom of the window. We started saying that the birds were stupid and that it was not possible to build a nest balanced on a single grill. Our window was a mess and the nest was not even close to complete. Just one morning later, however, I woke up to find this.

It was miraculous. The window was a complete mess when we went to bed and just the next morning there was a perfect nest in place and literally the entire window looked as if it had been carefully cleaned up. I sat on my bed awestruck for a long time amazed at how two tiny birds could possibly do all this is just a few hours, Anyhow, the nest is still there and the birds barely come out of it. I guess the nest is as cosy inside as it looks from outside. (It looks amazing but the pictures have not come well because of the lighting. The nest is completely rested on the net so it cannot be adjusted in any way.)

Other than the fact that I am not being able to roll up the net to enjoy an unobstructed open window, I am sure that this is something which one does not experience very often and unlike all my other posts, this is one thing that I would definitely not like to change. :)

Dadabhai..

Just today while I was browsing Facebook I came across my elder brother's (Dadabhai) blog. To tell you what he is like will not be very difficult. I am sure most of you have had one of those in your family. The sheer genius kind who always knows everything about everything and generally makes you feel like you know nothing at all in a very "It's all cool, I just know a little more than you do" sort of a way. :P
So I opened his blog and I read. He has this amazing way of noticing so many strange things and then writing about them in such perfect humor and terminology. He can make a small simple post sound so interesting and yet intellectual while I write long serious posts which even I am too lazy to read for the second time. Well, I took almost a month deciding what my blog will be on and what it will be called. In times like these, I wish his I had a little of his brilliance, just a little bit..:)

P.S. No self loathing or jealousy involved, Well, maybe just a little bit. But that's okay I suppose.

Books and Beyond..

Some of my fondest memories of childhood was spending hours with my mother and my father at a place called Lankmark, which you may now recognize as Starmark. It is primarily a bookstore but things like CDs, stationary, chocolates and other tit-bits of various types are also available there. When I was a child, my parents used to often take me there in the evenings and we used to spend hours flipping through this book and that. At the end before leaving I always used to cajole my father into buying me one or two Enid Blytons or bedtime stories or something like that and having spent a nice time all three of us used to return home content. It is thus very saddening for a person like me when places like Landmark, Music World and other stores like that are closing down owing to lack of sale.
The reason is very simple and yet very deep rooted. Say for example, a common sight today in both adults and children is having them keep their heads buried in their cell phones almost throughout the day. They are on their phones when they wake up, when they eat, when they talk to people, before they go to sleep. Now instead of calling up people use Whatsapp. There will be a room full of people yet no one will be talking to each other. I was once travelling in a train and there was a little girl travelling with her mother and her brother. She was so little she couldn't even speak and yet what she could do was operate a huge android phone, play videos in it, pause it and play it and increase the volume. It was very helpful for her mother to keep her baby distracted and not get cranky in the train. But it made me wonder.. will a kid like her ever grow up to like reading books or playing childish games that we used to when we were here age? I am sure most of you have come across children of like that. If cell phones occupy so much of most people's daily lives, who will go to bookstores and buy books and read them?
The modern day technology is another great advancement. We get the newest movies, songs, videos online for free. We can download ebooks and practically get everything online..I wont be a hypocrite here and accept that I am one such people who take the benefit of the wonders available online. Maybe at one point it is a good thing that these things are available online to everyone online. Video CDs and movie halls are often so expensive that they remained out of reach of many in the country until technology stepped in, Unfortunately the other side of the problem is because of this the sale of CDs and DVDs have deteriorated to a point where almost nobody buys them anymore at all. The result of all this is huge shops like starmark and music world are closing down. While it may seem like a small thing with just two shops closing it might be the end of an era, an era that existed for a hundred years.. Maybe it is for the good, a step towards something new, something better.. but maybe I am not ready for such a change yet, maybe I am not ready for people to stop reading books, maybe a lot of people are not ready yet.. Should we do something about or should we just let it be.. More importantly, can we do anything about it?

Not every cloud has a silver lining..

I was reading Marquez this afternoon after a late lunch. The monsoons have marked their arrival with the cloudy mornings and regular downpours now and then. It had been gloomy all day and around noon the black clouds finally decided to shed their sorrows washing the city with heavy rain. With the book in my hand and drowsy eyes, I suddenly noticed a bright yellow reflection on my window. When I got up to find out the source this is the sight that was waiting for me outside the window of my room.
If only I could capture the vastness of the magnificent sky and the beauty of the entire scene all at once with the birds returning to their nests all in a hurry and and brightness of the thousand shades of yellow and the brilliant glow of the setting sun. If only every cloudy day cleared to a sunset like this. If only..

Sportsman spirit

The inherent basic rule common to every sport is that there will be a winner and a loser. As a sportsman myself, I think what matters more is how you play. You can play poorly and win and you can play excellent and still lose. Some may think it is necessary to win in order to determine your worth but in reality, I feel, what matters more is how you play than whether you win or lose. And to give your best effort and accept defeat in a good spirit is what sportsman spirit is all about. In the recent Cricket World Cup 2015, India performed brilliantly throughout the entire tournament making all the Indians bask with pride. They made it to the semi-finals and unfortunately lost to Australia by a few runs. Needless to say that they put in their best effort and tried as much as they could. The Australians performed exceptionally well and they won. 

It is only natural for the country to feel crestfallen and sad about the defeat considering the fact that India had won the previous World Cup and naturally the Indian supporters were looking forward to two wins in a row. However, being unhappy or unsatisfied with the performance is something and spitefully putting the blame on irrelevant things criticizing your own players is another thing. The Indian team made the entire city proud when they won the previous World Cup and for all the matches they won this year. It is not fair to blame them and accuse them and criticize not only them but their girlfriends who did not even have anything to do with the match is highly unethical, unfair and absolutely against the spirit of sports. It is okay if someone says that the team did not play its best or these are the things they perhaps should not have done or something which one directs to the game itself. But to see such a huge population fill the social media with accusations and mockery about a single player and and his girlfriend is just unfortunate. 

Perhaps it reflects that a huge chunk of the Indian population is prone to living in an illusion, closing the truth out and putting the entire blame on something absolutely irrelevant. India played well but Australia played better and hence they won. This is about all that can be said about the match but it is fascinating to see how the people can overlook this simple fact and put the blame on so many other absolutely unimportant things. Perhaps this is a problem with all the major issues in India. People like to overlook the real truth and blame the problem on something unimportant and just pretend they do not see beyond that. Perhaps this is why people blame the victim is a rape case instead of changing the mindset, blame a lady instead of just accepting defeat, blame the poor for not working hard and being poor instead of helping them or maybe donating a part of their savings to charity. Perhaps the problem is not being able to embrace reality and escaping into a self-built illusion. Perhaps..  

If you cannot dress up right, it is all your fault.

The fact that a huge part of the Indian population consider it a duty of every woman to dress "decently" is not new to anyone. Almost every girl must have at some point of their lives if not always is taught to dress up properly so as to not get into trouble. With so many rape cases occurring one after another it is also not new to anyone that many consider girls staying out late and wearing skinny, short clothes to be the reason why men are drawn to molest them, that girls are themselves blamed to be the reason for the crimes committed on them. Then one may wonder what a four or five year old child must have done or worn to instigate a man to rape her. People seldom think before passing a judgement, However, when a case of a child being raped is heard, do they ever stop and think that their theories of decency and indecency, right and wrong may not be so true? The news is flooded with incidents of infants being raped. One may find reports of child rape in the newspapers every single day taking place in some corner of the country. And to think that those are only the ones which get reported. There maybe hundreds of victims of child rape in the country every week. How many of those who have a lot of judgments to pass about the character of a woman who gets raped has ever given the problem a thought and tried to find out why these incidents keep occurring. If they did, it would not take anyone long to figure out that the problem goes far deeper than short clothes and night outs. A kid who is not even 10 years old is almost incapable of dressing indecently and if men are instigated to rape children then is the problem not elsewhere? The idea that women are weak and should be subjected to male domination and guidance is an inherent mindset that in unconsciously embedded in the minds of 90% of the Indian population. Has anyone every thought that the concept itself might give a few men the authority and the audacity to violate the other sex to seek revenge, to discipline them, to use force as a show of power over women and believe that the victim brought it on herself/ While people spend so much time being critical about the way a girls dresses and behaves in public, I wish some would stop and ponder on the real issues which lead to such heinous crimes in the country. Unless the ideas and the beliefs and concepts are changed, will the country be really moving anywhere ahead with all the development projects, technology and what not?